It’s easy! If you consider that you have a problem then you are admitting that you are a part of the problem and hence a part of the solution. Look carefully at the problem so that you can determine how you are contributing to it, then do something quite radical. Stop thinking about the subject as a problem altogether. This part is quite easy. Just stop thinking about it and never think about it again, with the emphasis on the word never. The next step, and this applies to things that you just can't remove from your life, is to think about the solution. There are many old proverbs that address this matter. They are all true and give much good advice. All difficult situations that you encounter have hidden within them the answers required for their solution. If this were not so the problem would have involved someone else and not you. So just think. If it's worthwhile solving you can, and if it is not, forget it and never think about it again.

Just do it. Really! Nike got it right. Don’t procrastinate. You know that old advice. Well it makes sense. You see when you have an idea you already have a completed project that will find its place and achieve relevance when complete. Thoughts are indeed things (See blog No 1 “The virtual world we live in") A nice way of understanding this concept is to step outside and look at the cars going by. Look at the traffic and see how a car joins the traffic only when an opportunity is afforded the driver (and a gap in traffic is perceived by the approaching vehicle). That's exactly what happens with your ideas. If you have a great idea, the opportunity was created at the same time that you had the idea. Remember, the idea is already a fait acompli. You are getting it now I'm sure. Time is not something that exists in the future. The future and the present are really different sides of the same thing. A coin lying on the table has two sides, the side (present) that you see and the side facing down (the future) that is there but is hidden unless you turn the coin over.
So act now. Just do it. Everything will immediately become more relevant.
Just try it and you will see.

"When one door closes another opens" This is a well known quote,but what you were not told is that when you think that the door is open and you turn the lock and it is actually closed this is a clear signal that there is absolutely nothing inside that will ever be of any interest to you.In fact you should turn right around and abandon the idea that brought you to the closed door in the first place. Seems to make sense? Well it does. You see the way the Universe works is that there are no wrong things,only right ones. There are also no nearly right or wrong things either. So how do you put this information to practical use? Well, the next time you make a call to inquire about something,and the phone rings, and rings, and rings, take this to mean a negative or what we sometimes call a no no. If you persist and eventually get a response look at the situation as being similar to having forced open a lock and damaged the door. Would you really want to go inside and make a deal, start a new enterprise having just destroyed the door to the entrance way? I think not. So, don't get married to that blind date that stood you up on the first meeting planned. Don't go back to that office where you had to meet those important people and found the place closed and realized that they had forgotten all about the meeting and were on the way to the airport. Like magic, the right door always opens when you put your hand on the door knob and sometimes it will open with just the slightest effort.