You are the product of attraction and you in turn continue to attract. Its curious but it is the only explanation that really works. All the things in your life are there because you attracted them into your life.The better you make your life, i.e the more pure your thinking and yearning the better will be the things that you will attract. Another way of looking at it is that you get the type of life that you want and you get the type of life you deserve. Your thoughts right now are the magnet but the thoughts don't manifest in actions or events immediately. It does not work quite like that only almost like that. What about the items and people that you must perforce encounter by chance. Don't worry about them. They don't belong and they will not be of any long term consequence. If they do not fit into your scheme of things just ignore them they will go away or like magic they will vanish. Remember you have the power. Only you can attract. Nothing that does not belong in your world can force its way in. It just won't happen.